I was thinking about Conference and how Elder Eyring...no, President Eyring asked us to notice each day how God’s hand had touched our lives and find a way to record it and remember it for the benefit of our children. At least I think that’s what he said. Well, I noticed. Our friend, Tim Filichia left the earth tragically and unexpectedly and so many are mourning the loss and I have seen God’s hand at work as friends make contact and families draw near. I can’t help but think that a loving Heavenly Father would want something good to come from this tragic circumstance of the sweet Felichia family. Here is what I have observed... people started to call each other. At the Felichia house, people gathered and hugged and shared stories and people out of town called each other and planned memorials and shared glimpses and memories. Brothers and sisters shared sweet, though sad moments reminiscing. A place was started on Facebook to post photos etc. Memories are being revisited and smiles are coming to tear stained faces. It’s such a sad thing to think that Tim, so animated, complimentary, talented, supportive, fun loving, and friendly will be separated from those who love him best for a season, yet still people are coming together to shake hands, to hug, to celebrate a life well lived in his short stay here. I always felt that I was a favorite to Tim. Just about everyone I’ve talked to has said they felt same thing. It was his gift. I know of times where he helped others to be at ease by breaking the ice or engaging conversation. He could light up his surroundings with his contageous smile. Tim is missed greatly, still I know that I will see Tim again, and that he will have that twinkle in his eye. I look forward to that day. I know that God’s hand has touched our lives and allowed us to be enriched by a young man who lived without regrets. I want to be be like that when I “grow up”. Like Elder Eyring said, “Maybe there’s still time”.
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Thank you Peg for your post, it was touching. And I love your cute blog! Your family is darling!
well said, peg. well said. thanks.
Thanks for that one. I couldn't even think of the words if I wanted to...plus I have a hard time looking at my screen when I write about it. I sure will miss that kid. I am so glad to know what I know. Love you.
Wow, I don't know him but that was beautifully put. There are some people on the Earth (and off) that were truly Gods gifts to us. I am sorry for your loss. We love you.
P.S.
Peg- I personally think you are one of those people.
Hey Peggy,
That was beautiful. I was so sad that I wasn't able to be there for the services, but just like you said, there were many phone calls between friends and family. People whom I haven't talked to in years called me, or I met up with them on Facebook, or wherever. We can take great comfort in The Plan, can't we? Like Megan said, I'm glad to know what I know.
When this all happened, I couldn't help but think of all the people who meant so much to me, or who have touched my life in some way. Your entire family is on my list, but most of all, Jake. I still consider him to be one of my very best friends (and closest back in the day). I have so many fond memories of him and your family. I'm thinking it's about time for another Merrell - Moffat bowling night... all spouces and children invited. ??? I just might have to do some planning here with the hoidays coming up.
Okay, I better end this novel. Shocking that it has let me go this long. Anyhoo- love your blog and your family. Talk to ya later ~Cindy
Peggy,
That was beautiful. I have taken such comfort in reading and hearing other people's stories about Tim. Wasn't he wonderful? And I know he continues to be so. He's left a lot for us to live up to. Thank you! Love.
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